I used to think in my early twenties (I'm now 40) that I would either make a go of the world, let go of my black and white, good vs. bad thinking, get elbow deep into the muck of the world, or move to Vermont...Read More About Lisa »

Filling up by reaching up.

 

So I went to Walmart today.  Gosh its been forever really since I’ve gone, maybe a year, more…  It’s only 20 minutes away and only 1 of 3 Walmarts in the whole state of Vermont.  It is almost always busy and for me overwhelming, so I do my best to avoid it.  We were in need of a travel high chair for ~O though and I knew they had them there.

I had 3 things on my list, the travel high chair, lined dish gloves, and a pack of women’s ankle socks.  I had ~O in the Mobywrap and ~R held on to the shopping cart as we walked in.  I hardly ever shop anywhere except the supermarket, so I kind of felt like a kid in a candy store enticed by the low prices and the shear wealth of variety of consumer goods.  I found myself thinking; “Oh we could use that, and oh wouldn’t that be nice!”  Thankfully just after finding our last item ~R had to use the potty.  The spell was broken.  After leaving the bathroom we made a beeline for the register and bought our things.  I made it out with only 1 item that wasn’t on the list – a pack of foam letter/numbers for the bath.

During the car ride home it really struck me how enticing consumerism, just plain old buying new stuff, is.  How it fills a hole within.  I felt thankful that in my present life shopping doesn’t really fit in, even if it isn’t by choice, but necessity.

And somehow that brought my tangled thoughts to Easter and how it also is about the filling of that hole.  As a kid Easter was nearly all about the “stuff”, a fluffy bunny, candy, hunting for strategically placed chocolate eggs.  They left me with fun warm feelings that I want my boys to experience too, but over the last few years, I’ve been on a search for a way to spotlight the main point of our Easter Celebration.

I’ve been looking for something similar to how our Jesse Tree focuses our family on Christ at Christmas.

I think I’ve found it, it’s a very hands on and kid friendly re-creation of the last days of Jesus:

I have to thank Laura at House of Joyful Noise for posting this idea on her blog.  She started it with her children at the beginning of Lent, but I wasn’t quite ready then.  A few days ago I mustered up some ambition and dug into it with the boys (literally).  I found a flower pot and serving dish from the stored items in our basement and my 5 1/2 year old son ~C, found a rock that was just right for the entrance of the tomb.

We had a bit of a false start when I sent the oldest 4 boys out in the yard to gather the rest of the materials.  Somehow a brawl ensued between them, not quite the cooperation I was hoping for.  After all that was sorted out I made sure to go outside with them and we all pitched in finding and digging up dirt and sod.  It was a true team effort.  They were so excited when we got the tomb together with its grass/sod roof and the next day fashioned crosses out of our Palm Sunday palms.   They thought we should make a Jesus for the tomb by printing out an image of Jesus and pasting it to some cardboard so we can place Him (covered in cloth) in the tomb on Good Friday and then close the tomb with the stone, then on Easter the rock will be moved aside and Jesus will be gone leaving only the cloth folded neatly inside.

My oldest ~V talked about possibly having the risen Jesus “appear” around the house for the 40 days after Easter, when he appeared to many before finally ascending into heaven.  I kind of LOVE that idea.  It’s like Elf on the Shelf, but only better (and definitely NOT an every day thing, he’ll appear somewhere maybe once a week or something).

So excited for this way to bring Jesus that much closer to the boys and our family.   Jesus came here to fill the holes in our hearts that sale prices at Walmart, candy, and bunnies just can’t do.

~Lisa

The Best Kind of Bathroom Talk

I was on the phone with one of my oldest friends the other day and she was talking about the interpersonal issues her 10 year old daughter deals with between girlfriends.  It brought us back to all the baloney we pulled in our neighborhood between our crew of 3 and then later 4 girls of the same age.  Someone was always on the outs.

I’ll just call my friend Pinky (for Pinky Tuscadero on Happy Days , she was always Pinky and I was Leather, Pinky’s friend).  Anyway, Pinky in our friendship was always in control or so it seemed to me then.  I remember many “bathroom talks” where I would complain to my mom about Pinky and our friendship.

Yes, my mom and I while I was growing up had our most important talks while she was on the potty with me sitting across from her on the edge of the tub.  Her words of wisdom were worth so much to me that I hardly noticed the discomfort of sitting there, we had sliding doors on the tub so I basically sat on top of the metal groove that the doors slid on – OUCH.

On any given day, especially in summer, I would complain that Pinky did this or that to hurt my feelings.  Honestly I can’t now remember what those things were. Pinky and I are still friends and I value our friendship as it has evolved more than ever.  I do remember though that my mom never got into the fray of our arguments, always gave solid advice that helped me get over being hurt, and  ALWAYS stuck up for Pinky.  That part did kind of bug me at the time – I mean I was her daughter why stick up for her?

It is so easy to cast blame, to judge, to be defensive, or jealous -it’s human.  But mom always looked at things from other peoples perspectives.  She always cared about people whether they were rich, poor, popular, or unpopular.  It is something that was so innate in her.  She was a giver.  I can’t say that it is ALWAYS innate in me but oh it is something I try hard to emulate!

That light, it shined bright in my mom, and in the bathroom that humble place, she taught me by example to be kind and give people the benefit of the doubt, a lesson that continues to guide my soul.

I know from our talk the other day that Pinky appreciated it too and so do I.  Love you mom!

~Lisa

P.S.  My mom would totally snigger at the title of this post (she had a twinkle in her eye that lady!) :)

 

 

On its way!

My Peonies painting is on its way to Virginia today.  The woman who owned our house before us bought it.  I hoped she would.  She is the one that planted the peonies in our yard in the first place.  I spent the morning prepping it to mail, writing out a little note card, taking a few more photos, etc.  Of course just as I was ready to leave with my 3 1/2 year old ~R and little ~O it started to rain.  But I was not deterred.  A few sprinkles wouldn’t hurt it and well I just needed to do this and have the painting gone.  I warned all the boys this morning that I was going to be taking it off the wall and mailing it.  It was actually my very first time using a UPS store (when I mail jewelry I always use USPS).

I particularly like this photo of our kitty Rose with the Peonies.  She spent many an early morning hanging out with me while I painted it, so I love that she sidled her way into the picture.

Now with an empty space on our living room wall its time for me to get out a blank canvas and start getting up early again.   -I’m sure Rose will welcome the company.

 

~Lisa

 

Steam through the rafters

One of my favorite sites when we visit sugar shacks on Maple Open House Weekend is the steam rising.  All that water wafting through the rafters leaving sweet syrup behind in the pan. I loved seeing it today at our very own sugar shack.

 

Kevin did a great job redesigning our new set up because this is exactly what it should sound like:

In previous years we lost lots of heat out the sides and did not get a real productive boil going, which basically means it takes a lot longer to boil down 35-40 gallons of sap to make a gallon of syrup. So this hearty sound is music to my ears.

 

Kevin also humored me today and gave a little sugaring tutorial for you all:

 

It was a great day. We celebrated our oldest ~V’s 10th birthday with some school friends hosting a pancake breakfast in the morning and then in the afternoon the kids helped collect sap, ate sap ice like frolicking cubs, checked the boil, ran around and got tired…

You’d never guess I was that “city girl” (his term not mine) that Kevin imported from Massachusetts.

I love this time of year. Sugaring gets us out and active in early spring when it’s generally muddy and cold to make something sweet and wonderful.

 

Happy spring forward everyone!!

~Lisa

 

 

 

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